Saturday, July 13, 2019

The need for child protection rules in India

One of the core premises we have is that "Parents know Best." 
Hell, NO!! I doubt if they even know enough. 

I always insist that the Indian State has failed its children. In a big way. 

To be an adoptive parent, you have to prove 1000 things - your financial ability, your emotional maturity, your existing relationships with friends and family, your support group, your reasons for adopting. etc. etc. One friend had her adoption request rejected bcs many years ago, she had had to give up on an adopted dog bcs she just could not take care of it. The adoption officer said, "A child is not a dog." And rejected her application! They did not consider that by this time, she has quit the long hours job that necessitated her giving up the dog, and is a complete stay at home person, willing to invest her time and energy in a lovely child. 

No such restrictions on the biological parent. But you are not raising your child in a silo. 
You are creating a future citizen, and when: 
  1. 11th class children kill 2nd class children, 
  2. 5 year olds die because its grandmother did not hold the child's hand and hold it away from the traffic direction, 
  3. A 4 year old inserts a pencil in the private parts of a classmate, 
  4. We have THOUSANDS of NGOs handling lakhs of kids just dealing with abused and abandoned and runaway children (all by biological parents) 
  5. We have a spate of 5-6 year olds on spectacles 
  6. 15 year olds on PCOD drugs
  7. 23 year olds who are "discovering themselves" and unable to do normal tasks
  8. 14 year olds who are being brought in scary numbers to be treated for depression
  9. Children being sent to hostels because the parents "cannot discipline them at home" 
  10. 11 year olds who bring 25000 in cash to school and we have no idea if parents know
  11. Raise an entire generation with obesity epidemic. 
You are NOT doing parenting right. 

In India, you can: 
  1. Stop the immunisation of your child. 
  2. You can pull the child out of school. 
  3. You can hit your child. 
  4. You can leave your child unattended. 
  5. Send the child to a school or in a school van that is obviously unsafe for children. 
  6. You can take a young child to a violent movie with graphic scenes. 
  7. You can look the other way if someone is being "too affectionate" to your child. 
  8. You can abuse a male child by asking it to "man up". 
  9. You can expose your child to firearms in the house. 
  10. You can, as the post says, give alcohol to your child. 
  11. You can take your child to a bar (the law requires that you have to be at least 18 to enter a place where alcohol is being served), 
  12. You can ask your grown daughter to return to a family that is abusing her just to "keep the marriage" 
And that is when you know BEST? 
Just because child protection rules do not exist in India does not mean that we don't need them.

Friday, July 12, 2019

Marriage

तूने मेरे साथ किया था
लाल फीते का अनुबंध
लाल फीता टूटा
तेरा अनुबंध
किसी और से हो गया

Sunday, July 07, 2019

Achanak

जब मैं ११ साल का था,
मेरी माँ ने नसें काट ली थीं 


उस दिन से पहले,
वो दुनिया की सबसे अच्छी माँ थी. 
उस दिन के बाद 
वो दुनिया की सबसे बुरी माँ बन गयी 
हमेशा, हमेशा के लिए.


मैं ५ दिन रहा 
उसके बगैर 
उन ५ दिनों में 
मुझे उस से 
नफरत हो गयी
पूरी 
मैंने कभी नहीं सोचा
कि माँ भी नसें काट सकती है 
मैंने कभी नहीं पूछा 
"माँ, तूने नसें क्यों काटी?"
मैं हमेशा सोचता रहा 
"माँ , मेरा ख्याल कौन रखता? तुझे शर्म नहीं आती ?"


माँ घर आयी.
फिर से बनाने लगी 
रोटी 
बुहारने लगी 
घर 
करने लगी 
प्यार 
उसने कभी 
कुछ न कहा 
पर मैंने 
उसे कभी माफ़ नहीं किया 
कभी भी न पूछा 
"माँ, तूने क्यूँ काटी थी नसें? "
बस, नाराज़ ही रहा मैं. 
मना करता रहा 
कहानी को 
बताशों को 
तमाशों को 
जैसे 
बताशों से रूठने की सज़ा 
माँ को सीधी मिलनी थी.


मैं बहुत बड़ा हो गया 
माँ ने फिर 
कभी नसें नहीं काटी 
पर मैंने 
उसे कभी माफ़ नहीं किया।


आज 
अचानक 
समझा हूँ 
क्यूँ 
औरतें 
काटती हैं नसें 
आज 
अपने आप से 
घृणा सी हो रही है मुझे. 

Tuesday, July 02, 2019

The Rabies epidemic of India - and what the shortage of the vaccine is doing

In an earlier report, I had raised simple questions. Let's go over them once more:
1. One third of global rabies deaths come from India (WHO numbers, not ours). Rabies is not caused by vaccinated dogs. How much money has the AWBI spent on vaccination and sterilisation of stray animals? (The answer, as given in response to an RTI, is quite pathetic) and how many of these dogs are certifiably vaccinated? (No answer given)


2. The number of dog bites that India has to deal with, is massive to say the least.


This Twitter handle will take you to individual cases of stray dog menace. In 2017, feral dogs killed at least 19 children in Sitapur, India, at the beginning of the year. But it did not even make news. 20,000 people a year die from Rabies - that is 2.2 people per hour or roughly one person every 27 minutes. These are the deaths. NOT the bites. The bites are 1.75 million per year. That is 3.3 bites per minute. At least 2 other reports I read used much higher numbers than these. These are the lowest reported numbers.


These numbers are understated. Why? Because many animal bites are never reported. And because rabies is, till date, not a notifiable disease in India. This means that it does not have to be reported to the govt. The cases that reach private hospitals and take treatment there are not mentioned. In short, these are just the government numbers. Not the total numbers.


Now, we have another worrisome side of the story.


Not only are people being bit literally every minute, but also that the standard treatment protocol - the anti rabies vaccine, is in short supply.


Since August, 2018, at least, there are reports of shortage of vaccine.


Why is shortage of vaccine an issue?
 When a stray animal bites a human, the person has to mandatorily take the rabies vaccine. Rabies, once got, cannot be cured and is invariably fatal. Not only that, the death is particularly painful and there is no legal provision for euthanasia. The brain is affected last and so the patient is acutely aware of what is happening with them. They are aware of hydrophobia and the acute thirst and that they are going to die of it. They often die through drowning in their own spit or blood. It is one of the most gory ways to go.


A friend told me that his friend's brother died from the disease and even after all these years, it haunts him. Imagine, then, the state of this couple, who did take the injections, but not the first immuno-globulus serum. The child died after they thought they had protected her!


Shortage of vaccine means that people who are getting bit will die, and not in a nice way.


Why is the vaccine not available?
India's demand is 48 million vials p.a.. Our current production is about 50 million vials. Half o this is exported. The government has been mulling a ban on exports since April, 2019, but so far, nothing has been done.


Since last year, GSK's factory in Ankleshwar, Gujarat, has stopped producing the vaccine. The factory was taken over by Bharat Pharma.


But even if we do take the drastic step of banning exports, that only meets our needs for the current year. What about next year? The growth in cases is not slow. It is rising year on year because not enough money is being spent on sterilising animals. Higher animal population means more human-animal conflict (please see that twitter handle to know what I mean, and the Sitapur stories still haunt me).


How bad is it?
The last 2 tenders floated by the govt for the procurement of the vaccine got no responses. The states with the most acute shortage include (but are not limited to) Kashmir, Karnataka, Himachal and Delhi (where the shortage has now prompted a crisis. Even international media has taken note of the health crisis in India's capital. Sample these:
1. https://www.europeanpharmaceuticalreview.com/news/89681/rabies-vaccines-shortage-puts-delhi-on-brink-of-crisis/


2. http://www.bbc.com/future/story/20150915-indias-rabid-dog-problem-is-running-the-country-ragged


Kerala and Rajasthan have long term contracts with vendors (3 to 5 years) and therefore don't have an immediate crisis. Kerala has now agreed to send some vaccines to Karnataka. In my view, these are the only two states who don't have a shortage - right now.


The shortage is almost 80% in the affected states. That means 80% of the poorest of the poor, who are bit by animals, do not get this vaccine.


Will it make a difference if we correct the vaccine imbalance?
Canada has reported a shortage of the vaccine. But not the US. Sample this article from the US to understand how utterly avoidable, unnecessary this disease, and the painful deaths associated with it are.
When we read this article, the 20,000 people we lose to the disease appear to be state sponsored crime.


What can we do?
Elementary, my dear Watson. These steps are not rocket science, nor can one accept things like "No Money" as an excuse. The only reason that no one is taking the issue seriously is that no one takes central ownership of the holistic issue. The AWBI goes on to push its own agenda, not realising that human-animal conflict is eroding the core Indian ethos of co-existence. Indian homes keep water for the birds, and make 2 extra rotis with every meal - one for the dog and one for the cow.


The municipal bodies of India - forever understaffed and overstretched, want to just push the envelope. The govt hospitals worry about not receiving the vaccine. They are not in a position to check why the demand is going up so much. There is a national Rabies control program, but I got to know of it only today, hidden under layers of official documentation.


  • Make breeding illegal: It is inhuman. Time to declare it illegal. Those who want pets can take the strays. These are hardy breeds with much to offer by way of disease resistance and high immunity.


  • Increase production capacity of the vaccine: 50 million vials are grossly inadequate. We NEED to step up production capacity Urgently. All the 5 producers in India are private companies who should, hopefully, see the opportunity and try to seize it.


  • Make Rabies a notifiable disease: So that we at least have our numbers right!


  • Educate, Educate, Educate: Ensure that all local doctors, esp in rural areas, know the treatment protocol and advise the patients properly. Even washing the wound reduces the chances of getting the disease by as much as 40%!


  • Set up a supply chain: What is crucial is to get the immunoglobulus into the wound as quickly as possible after the bite. Set up a supply chain so that people do not have to frantically wait for the vaccine. The people who die, routinely, are the poor. The ones who cannot afford the treatment. They are the ones who need to be protected, educated, and taken care of.

  • Population Control: It is time to ensure that we take human and animal population control on a war-footing. This is not just important for rabies. It is important for many, many other reasons.


And lastly,
Are you blaming the dogs?
NO. You cannot blame the dogs and the monkeys and the bats. The only people responsible for human-animal conflict are the humans. Animals live on the principle of territorial aggression and follow the law of the jungle. They cannot be blamed for having their instincts.


The only people we should blame are the ones who design the ABC rules (which, as I have explained in an earlier post, are flawed in design, not in execution) and then do not plan for the population explosion that this will lead to. The dogs are ok. It is the dog lovers that need to answer for their actions. They have effectively alienated society, which directs its ire against the dog lovers, at the dogs.





Saturday, June 22, 2019

On Doctors

I rarely write on this blog about topical issues because, well, they are like clouds.. they rain a lot, but they always leave just as they came - in a short time.


However, this news piece is something that touches a long term raw nerve and probably, i do have something new to say.


Some days ago, an 85 year old stroke patient was brought to the hospital in Kolkata. The doctors could not save him. The 'relatives' of the old man - only 200 of them, beat the doctor up mercilessly, and also cracked his skull while they were at it.


Right after that, doctors all over the country were up in arms. OPDs were shut down and surgeries were cancelled. Emergency services were not stopped, but they were not adequate. All this was happening while 100 children were dying in the state of Bihar, from an illness that comes every time the Litchis (a particularly sweet fruit that is considered a delicacy in most parts of the world) are harvested.


Over the next week, memes making doctors look like wronged angels appeared. Doctors wondered why ordinary people are not taking up cudgels for them.


Let's try and understand this. Because this one incident, and what it has triggered, should force us to think about a few things. I've been a mute spectator to this circus for many years now, and this really has got to stop. Or at least, get better.


The life of a doctor
What life? A medical student has no life. When the rest of us are busy playing, these kids, sometimes as young as 15 (Grade 10 onwards) are slogging to prepare for the entrance exams - which are really hard to crack.


Question One: If it is about aptitude, WHY do students need to prepare for the exams? What are you testing, specifically? If the knowledge is expected to be at grade level, why is the test designed such that a child needs to prepare over and above their grade books?


After they clear this entrance, they enter the 5 year basic program. This program requires them to study by rote, appear for duty in the wards. Do you know how long a medical student is officially expected to remain on duty? Wait for it - 36 hours.


A person who is responsible for saving the lives of others, who is supposed to take split second decisions in emergencies, is supposed to keep his/her brain alert for 36 hours without sleep, rest, or even washing facilities. In most cases, they serve the poorest of the poor and have little access to the specialists. Which means they are forced to take these decisions on a tired brain, without access to expert knowledge, and they still save lives.
Many times, even the seniors force their resident duties upon the juniors. One time, my friend was on duty for 36 hours, went to the hostel for 8 hours and was back for a senior's 36 hour duty. She told me this was the norm. If you go against your seniors, they just make life miserable for you. The same for teachers.


Question Two: What is the pedagogical need for 36 hour duties. Is it to toughen the mind? Why is a relentless mind needed to be a doctor? I truly do not understand this, and am sure there is a purpose to it. Because we do end up creating the world's best doctors.


After the medical degree, starts the PG scramble. Will they get into MD, or will they go abroad, or will they do a PG diploma in their own field? That is another 2-3 years of their lives invested.


After that, most doctors take up salaried roles in the corporate hospitals. After a few years, private practice maybe.


Most of them work for many hours a day. Most of them see patients on Sundays and Saturdays.


Quite a few of them get paid very well. Some try to go abroad. But the best doctors, imho, come from the public health system of India. They see, on average, 200-300 patients a day. They treat patients using minimal resources and inexpensive medicines. When i really need medical advice, i go to a government hospital.


The other side of the story:
A child of 6 months of age has a skin condition. Instead of telling the parents to understand the underlying cause of the allergy, the dermatologist prescribes steroids. The child is kept on topical steroids for almost 6 months, until the parents notice that there is permanent damage to the skin of the child. By then, it is too late.


A child of 3 years comes to the doctor with proteinuria. Instead of checking the salt intake of the child and telling the parents that they really need to keep it below 1.5 grams a day and wait, the doctor follows "medical protocol" and advises them to put the child on steroids immediately. For the rest of their life, that child is not likely to have a normal life for more than a few months at a time. S/he will be in and out of hospitals his/her whole life.


A child has an autoimmune disorder. Any autoimmune disorder. Instead of reading research on what causes these autoimmune disorders, or even guiding parents to support groups where they can find out more, the doctors follow "protocol" and start the child on steroid based therapy, which quickly progresses to other, more drastic interventions.


A child of 2 years of age is not growing. The doctor prescribes "Pediasure" as a "growth nutrition supplement". One year later, the child has developed an auto-immune disorder. No one makes the connection. Why? Because auto-immune disorders are idiopathic - No cause known.


A girl of 15 years of age has hirsutism. Her parents take her to a doctor, who puts her on PCOS medication instead of telling her that her body and system is evolving, and to give it time. Do you know how PCOS medication works? Most of them work by supressing ovulation, and just inducing bleeding at the right time. So in effect, you are suppressing the ovaries at a time when you should be giving them the time to develop on their own and probably adjust her diet.
This girl then goes on to gain weight, and at the right time, is very likely to need fertility treatment.


A stroke patient comes into the hospital. The doctor convinces the family that they should get a surgery done. After the surgery, the patient is on ventilator, and in coma. The family, which is poor and got the father to the best medical care, is now 3 lakhs poorer and has a father who is responding even less than he was before the surgery. No fault is taken by the hospital or the doctor. The doctor tried his best and stroke cases are tricky as it is.


A stroke patient is brought to the hospital and is kept on the ventilator. During this time, everyone except the family of the person knows that the patient is dead. But the family is charged a cool 50,000 per day for being on life support that is effectively violating his dead body.


All of these are permanent, life changing medications. In each case, the doctor has followed medical protocol and is therefore not at fault at all. And not one of them is rare. Ask anyone about any of these instances and you will hear at least 3-4 examples that they know of personally.


But, these are also lives ruined.


My dear doctors, my only question to you is - Why did you not ask, "What is leading to the PCOS epidemic among young girls? Why are so many children coming to us with MCNS and other autoimmune disorders? Why is cancer among women in their 40s so prevalent? Why do most men today have prostrate issues?"


The pharma companies will not pay for the Why research. But the IMA and other professional bodies of doctors have enough money and know-how to design and conduct such researches on Indian patients and arrive at the causes. Today, one hears those causes anecdotally. But once there is a research telling us that these are the things not working for our Indian constitution, will we all not move towards a healthier society? When I tried to find out what was the effect of a particular immunisation on children of Indian genetic stock, I realised that the pharma companies are not required to even test on Indian genes and check if the immunisation is required, effective, or harmful. We are all taking immunisation as per the Caucasian subject studies. No Indian medical body or government has asked pharma companies to conduct such research on Indian subjects and publish results.


In short, dear doctors, here is my view:
What you have to go through, just to become a doctor, is A LOT. It deserves respect of the highest order. What you do after that, day after day, being patient with each patient, treating people, especially in some pretty harsh conditions - that deserves respect too.


But collectively, you sold us out. So while we may root for one doctor individually because he has been good to me and my family, I will not root for doctors as a group. We cannot.


I am, of course, aware that the doctors who deal with thousands of patients in a day and face patient violence, have very little in common with the doctors who sold us out. And it is not fair. But then, the ones who are making the memes on social media on behalf of all doctors are the ones who have the time and the connectivity.




And in that ONE incident, the fact that the victim was a doctor makes no difference. Any bunch of goons who come and beat up another person, deserves to be put in jail and be tried for it.



Wednesday, June 19, 2019

Quotable Quote

If you ask me.. I have no concept of a nice man.
- My friend, while discussing men and relationships.

I LOLed when she said this, because, well... har kisi ko nahi milta, yahaan pyaar zindagi mein..

In other news, I finally created a playlist of Punjabi songs that I love:

https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLOuG7jWGWxXwgjym2fT5kp_hduqWM63ln


************
I'm so fat, when i wear a dress, it gives the term "drumroll" a whole new meaning.



Monday, June 17, 2019

Viraha / Birhan


विधि  कहे,
"बिरहन का चोला ओढ़ो". 


मन कहे, "धत!
राधा बिरहन थी का?"

Friday, June 14, 2019

Dulhan/ Why I always buy second hand books

पुरानी किताब 
बड़ा फायदे का सौदा है

मुफ्त मिलते हैं इनके साथ 
सूखे गुलाब 
आंसू से भीगे पन्ने 
किसी से बात करते करते 
पेन से उकेरे गए ख्वाब।

कभी 
बच्चों को दिया हुआ 
किसी  का आशीर्वाद।

पुरानी किताब 
कभी अकेली नहीं आती.
चुप सी दुल्हन, 
अपना सारा मायका 
साथ ले कर आती है.

Thursday, June 13, 2019

Just thoughts..


Someone sent me a message: "We are all One - Our egos, beliefs and fears separate us."
And that set me thinking...


We are all specks of light.. on different steps of a staircase. We're alike in that we are all light. We're different like the stars are different.


:)