I have a serious question - The people who are named in suicide notes - how do they feel? 

I only know of one girl (teenaged) who was named in a suicide note. 

She shrugged her shoulders and said, "It is not my fault that he was weak." 

I think the universal answer from these folks is going to be - It was not my fault. 

And that's probably true. it was not their fault. 

But it is also the universality of human emotion - we rarely, if ever, attribute negative acts to ourselves.