Saturday, June 20, 2015

Happy Father's Day Papa..

Tomorrow is Father's Day. Also the day we will be returning the body of our father to his Father in heaven.




I came home to spend Father's Day with him.. and had a strong feeling that I should spend July 1 here with him.. because it will be his last birthday.. but he didn't wait that long.


Now, I celebrated Father's Day by consigning his body to the Fire God, and will spend July 1 as his Terhnvi - 13th Day.






I think.. there should be some divine rule against taking fathers 2 days before Father's Day and 10 days before their birthday.





Happy 65th Papa. Sleep Well.


Waheguru.

Thursday, June 18, 2015

पहाड़

पहाड़ सब
एक से ही दीखते हैं
 हरे, खूबसूरत
सशक्त

तस्वीर कहीं से भी हो
मॉडल सदा एक सा ही होता है
 

Bachpan ko, Hak Hai..

ਬਚਪਨੇ ਨੂ
ਹਕ ਹੈ
ਰੋਸੇ ਦਾ
ਹਾਸੇ ਦਾ
ਮਿੰਨਤਾਂ ਦਾ
ਜਾਫ੍ਫਿਯਾੰ ਦਾ

Bachpan nu

Hakk hai

Rose da

Haase da

Minnataan da

Jaffiyaan da 


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बचपन को
हक़ है  

रूठने का
रोने का
रेत के मंदिर बना कर
उनके टूटने पर
सौ मन मोती बहाने का

बिना बात की
संवेदनशीलता का

बचपन को
हक़ है
झूलों का
आसमानों का। 
 

Saturday, June 13, 2015

Meri Har Tayyari bas tum tak..

I love this song.. cant get it out of my eco system.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=k09uvR5eUao

मनचाहा ही रिश्ता - इमरोज़


Was pleasantly surprised to see a book of poetry by Imroz, who is more of a painter.. and it felt as if Amrita was speaking through him.. funny what years of companionship can do to a person..

Presenting.. excerpts..

पेड़ पंछी पैदा नहीं करते
पर पंछियों को घर देते हैं

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ये रब का  तजुर्बा ही हो सकता है करामात नहीं
की बच्चा औरत का जिस्म पैदा करे औरत नही.
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ज़रूरतें न होती
तो रब की भी ज़रुरत न होती
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पैर खोलो  तो धरती अपनी है
पंख खोलो तो आसमान
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प्यार अपनी किस्मत आप लिखता है
और सब की किस्मत कोई और लिखता है
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एक मनचाही ज़िन्दगी ही
ज़िन्दगी का आसमान है
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ज़िन्दगी तस्वीर भी है
और तकदीर भी
मनचाहे रंगों से बन जाए
तो तस्वीर
अनचाहे रंगों से बने
तो तकदीर
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न तरस करो
न रहम
दोनों में आदर नहीं
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पाप जिस्म नहीं करता
सोच करती है
गंगा जिस्म साफ़ करती है
सोच नहीं
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जब माँ नहीं होती
किसी रिश्ते में घर नहीं होता
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प्यार समझ में नहीं आता
पर प्यार समझ लेता है
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बिखरने के लिए
लोग ही लोग
पर एक होने के लिए
एक भी मुश्किल
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रिश्ते बनना और बनाना एक कला है
कानून मौका देता है रिश्ता नहीं
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माँ बोली बगैर पढ़े ही आ जाती है…
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खून के रिश्ते रिश्ते लगते हैं
पर हो नहीं पाते
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अच्छी सोच से अच्छा
कोई कानून नहीं
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Tuesday, June 02, 2015

Spiritual post

Today, I mentioned to someone that I don't think about self, so what others think of me is usually a blind spot. I have no idea how I am doing.. the person wondered where that is coming from.. I tried to explain the concept of bubbles and self. But it was only at home that I really figured it out.

I don't think about self because I don't have a concept of self. When we see people as "selves", we see them as stars, and a collection of these stars is a galaxy - a little like The Milky Way. But that law by Newton - Energy cannot be created or destroyed, it only changes form - is the exact same thing that the Geeta says about the Soul - it cannot be created or destroyed, it only changes form.

Another thing - that is very prevalent in Sanskrit thought - The microcosm and the macrocosm, reside in each other. I have truly experienced that.

So, I see the world, not as a galaxy, but as a pure, harmonious, unending wave of energy, not obstructed by concepts of self. When we take those obstructions of "self" away, we see only the flowing river of energy - which can neither be disturbed, nor created, nor destroyed. I see it so clearly, yet cannot describe it. Its one of those things that you experience in meditation, but cannot explain to anyone else. Yet it is real. I experience it, but cannot describe it. Because words slow us down.

जो भी मैं, कहना चाहूँ, बर्बाद करें, अलफ़ाज़ मेरे।

 

Monday, May 25, 2015

More on the Sanskrit Script

Ever since I wrote that old post on the structure of the Sanskrit script, one question has been nagging me.

If you were creating the structure of the script, why would you make it phonetic? A script is for writing. I would group it by the shape of letters, or any other way that learning the writing is easier. Why make it phonetic? Phonetic is the opposite of Written - it focuses on listening.

And then it hit me: The Vedas are called "Shruti" because they were passed down orally - they were heard before they were written. They had to be committed to memory. To ensure that the meaning is also passed down accurately, the pronunciation and enunciation had to be near perfect.

THAT'S WHY ITS PHONETIC - because it was NOT the structure of an alphabet at all - it was the structure of a language - the writing came later - much, much later.

The language was scientifically structured long before people thought of even writing it. The script, when it appeared, was simply adapted to the spoken alphabet.

Why is that revolutionary? Because the alphabet of any language is the core of the script. Popular thinking says that we need the alphabet for writing. Dialects like Tulu, Magadhi etc have no alphabet. They are simply learnt by speaking.
Creating a structured set of sounds that are relevant, then breaking it down into vowels and consonants, separating the consonants further by their phonetic relevance, is the work of an extremely scientific community. One that required intelligence and ingenuity. They were people to whom, for some reason, it was important to ensure that all relevant sounds are codified and memorised exactly.
So why would such an intelligent civilisation not consider writing?

I can think of 2 possible reasons -

1., That in their circumstances, they were unable to procure writing material - papyrus or other paper material, quills, ink etc.

2. They were a nomadic civilisation. They needed to be on the move and could not have carried their vast and bulky knowledge resources with them. Therefore, knowledge was committed to memory and passed from generation to generation.

I have, in connection with the Indus Valley civilisation, come across a very interesting hypothesis that states that perhaps the Indian peninsula was the birth place of the Aryans, and they went everywhere from here. This would lend credence to that idea - but a nomadic civilisation that is running away from India is not likely to completely forget its alphabet.
This indicates that the structuring of language, the research and scientific work was done by the Aryans of India, presumably after the migration of the other Aryans.

Your thoughts?

Friday, May 15, 2015

Dr. Rajesh Uppal Feedback/Review

Sharing from a group. Shame on all those parents who did not expect a 20 month old to sit still. I mean.. how can a 20 month old child not know how to behave?! The wise doctor has it all figured out - spank the child.

Today an incident has left me numb..We took Amyra to Dr Uppals Diagnostic center in NDSE since they r the best in their field however I only returned with disgust..A 20 month old spanked right in front of parents all cuz she was crying to stay still while the ...doc Dr Rajesh Uppal took his own tym to do the ultrasound..The baby lay in shock and now obviously scared of even a thought of visiting a doc..also parents are told "Tell her ill spank her again if she doesnt stay still"," Dont comfort her with nonsense(cuz i was telling her baby ur best frnd is cmng to meet u ) he said tell her she must lay still""You must be strict with ur child else she ll become more adamant"Aise toh pal gaye apke bache..im angry,miffed and numb cuz i couldnt say a word cuz we are to believe docs are supreme but my silence till now had been killing me..i need to report this cuz how can a doc spank a lil one so hard thinking he ll get away with this and throw unsolicited parenting advise.. Pl help by sharing!!

Tuesday, May 05, 2015

Restrictive Trade Practice at Hospitals in India

Soo.. I have been thinking of this for a while, and now want to ask - What makes hospitals retain patient records? When you are admitted, you are not allowed to see your own file. Why is that?

The way I see it, the only person who owns their health papers, is the patient. They are adults with sound mental capacity. They are perfectly capable of taking decisions. The only obligation of the hospital is to provide sound medical advice.

Hospitals retaining any papers at the time of discharge is not just a violation of the patient's privacy, it is also a Restrictive Trade Practice under the MRTP Act, 1970.

So, why would hospitals do such a thing?