1. Tell us about your first crush
2. have you ever kissed
anyone in the dark? Tell us about it.
3. When you were 6 or
7 years old, how did you visualize your future life? What did you think you
were going to be?
4. If you could change
3 things about your life, what would those be?
5. What would you
never change about your life?
6. What is the best
memory of your childhood?
7. What is the worst
memory of childhood?
8. What instantly makes
you like a person?
9. What makes you
instantly dislike a person in a social setting.
10. What is the most
romantic movie, according to you?
11. What is the most
romantic song, according to you?
12. Tell us about a day
or event that you were really looking forward to, but it turned out to be a damp
squib?
13. What is the most uninteresting/
boring date that you’ve been on?
14. Have you felt
attracted to someone when it was totally inappropriate?
15. If you fell for
your boss, what would you do?
16. If someone in your
team fell for you, what would you do?
17. Describe your
ideal date. Who would it be, where would you go, what would you do, how would
it end, and everything else.
18. What is the first
thing you notice about a person?
19. What are your best
qualities?
20. What do you dislike
or want to change about yourself?
21. What do you value
most about your partner (if you are in a relationship)?
22. Who would you like
to be reborn as? Why?
23. What are your
strongest values? Things you would never give up?
24. What’s a
dealbreaker in a relationship?
25. Have you ever had
a crush on a friend’s partner or a partner’s friend?
26. What is the most embarrassing
text on your phone right now?
27. What app do you
spend the most time on? What do you like about it?
28. Tell us about a
time that you were friends with someone but did not like something about them. Did
you tell them? Why or why not?
29. What do you do if
you don’t like something about your partner?
30. What do you do if
you don’t like something about a family member?
31. What is your
biggest fear?
32. If you met a genie,
what would your three wishes be?
33. An AI is making
you your perfect partner. Give it the prompt.
34. A best friend that
you are not in touch with any more, but think of often.
35. Have you been attracted
to someone younger (for women)/ older (for men)? How did that end?
36. Tell us about the
first time someone told you they loved you.
37. If you married for
love, how was marriage proposed to you? ‘
38. Which public
figure would you like to have dinner with? What would you like to do/talk
about?
39. Imagine you can switch
places for a day with any one person on the planet (alive now). Who is it? Why?
What do you do as them?
40. Who is the most attractive
person you know in real life? Why are they attractive?
41. You have the power to create an imaginary
friend. They are real to you. Describe them. What do you folks talk about? What
are the things you do together?
42. What is your dream
profession? Why are you not it?
43. Who is the most
beautiful person you know? What do you like about them?
44. Who, in your real life,
has inspired you the most. Tell us about it.
45. What’s your dream
come true?
46. What food can you
never say no to?
47. What’s your
favourite book? Why?
48. Who do you text or
message the most?
49. Think about a
friendship you have or have had for the longest time. Who was it? How long were
you friends? Why, if at all, did it end?
50. In this room, who
knows you best? Why do you feel that way?
51. In this room, who
do you know best? Tell us one interesting thing about them.
52. What, according to
you, is your most beautiful part?
53. If you could go
back and change one thing or one incident, what would you change?
54. What are you most
grateful for?
55. Have you ever
spied on anyone? Why? What did it lead to?
56. Happiest day of
your life so far?
57. Saddest day of
your life so far?
58. What are the most
important things or people in your life right now?
59. Describe an ideal
day. You live where you want to live, you do what you love to do, and you are
with whoever you want to be with. What happens? Describe the day.
60. In an alternate
universe, you are back in college. A person you had a crush on proposed to you
and you said yes. In that universe, what are you doing right now?
61. What was your
greatest learning at your first job?
62. Have you ever
physically hit anyone? When?
63. When was the first
time you said “I Love you” to someone? Who was it?
64. Tell us about your
first heartbreak.
65. What is the worst
thing that anyone has ever done to you?
66. What is the most incredible
experience you have been a part of?
67. What makes you
happiest?
68. What always makes
you cry?
69. How would you know
if you were starting to love someone?
70. If you saw a
friend’s partner cheating, would you tell your friend? Why or why not?
71. What is the best
news you ever got? Who gave it to you? Where?
72. What do you do when
you feel sad?
73. What is your
biggest regret?
74. What achievements
are you most proud of?
75. Tell us one thing
you like about any two people (or all) in the room.
75. Tell us one thing
you would like to change about any two (or all) people in the room.
76. If you could
become invisible, what would you do? For how long would you stay invisible?
77. If you could do astral
travel, what would you do? How far would you remain in that state?
78. How long were you
with a partner before you decided to go all the way?
79. What’s your
favourite possession? Why?
80. What was your most
fun holiday?
81. What was your
least fun holiday? Why did it go wrong?
82. If you were to
write a letter to the 20 year old you, what are the 4-5 things you would write?
83. Is there something
you would only do alone, and we don’t know about it? (Any talent)
84. Imagine you can
play a prank with no punishment. What would you do?
85. What dress would
you love to buy?
86. Imagine that your
perfect wedding is all yours. Describe it. Location, costumes, guest list, how
many days, what rituals, everything.
87. What is a skill
you wish you had?
88. What is the scariest
thing you have ever done?
89. What are you most
passionate about?
90. What is the best
advice you ever got?
91. If you could be a
person of the opposite gender for a day, would you take the swap? What would
you do?
92. If you could have
a superpower, what would you choose? Why?
93. What is the most
romantic thing that someone has ever said to you? What is the most romantic
thing that you have ever said to anyone?
94. Suppose someone
has to meet you for a really important thing. What can they do to be instantly
liked?
95. What would you
observe on a first date? What would you make of it? Why? For example, say you
would notice shoes. Why is that important to you?
96. Imagine you have
won a jackpot lottery. What would you do?
97. What do most
people assume about you that isn’t true?
98. Tell us about your
best kiss.
99. Who are you
closest to? What makes you open up to them so easily?
100. Who are you most
impressed by? Why?
101. In this room, who
are you most impressed by? Why?
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This list is made for the birthday present of a dear friend. It might help some of my blog friends too.
Most of the questions are standard truth questions, some I thought up.
And while you are at it, do answer some of these questions for yourself too :)
