We often think that Love and Relationships are the same thing. Love is
like a flowing river - it nourishes, it enhances, and it flows freely.
If we dont pollute it with negative things, it will always remain clear.
Relationships, on the other hand, are containers. They draw boundaries
and put things inside and outside. They confine. By definition, a
relationship is like a dam on a river. Thats why they are not the same
thing. Dams and containers are necessary. Our misery stems from the fact
that we create a container, and look for the river. They are not the
same thing. If we remember that we have created a container, we will not
look for the unlimited flow of love in it. Like water in a container,
love in a relationship needs refreshing, otherwise it can go bad.